RAD kids triangulate. They pit parent against parent, parent against sibling, parent against neighbor (seeing a pattern here?)
On Wednesday Middle-One came home. On Thursday Middle-One began school. Never one to procrastinate and delay hard work, by Friday he had begun to pit parent against teacher.
I received a very concerned email from his sweet teacher. She had noticed that Middle squinted a lot and could not see the board. When she asked him about this he told her that he had glasses but not with him. I don't know what else might have been said but her email to me was a plea to understand how important it is for Middle to have his glasses at school with him and would I please make sure that he had the corrective eye ware he needed.
Hmmmmm... is there any reason why a caring mom would *not* let her child have the glasses he so needed?
The kicker?... He doesn't have glasses :o)
He does need them. He "loses" any pair of glasses that he gets and the last pair was lost (we think) last fall. We were never told that they were missing and no one made an effort to replace them or help keep Middle accountable for them.
Now that he is back home we have an eye appointment set for him with a plan to make sure he has the glasses he needs.
I tried not to be too defensive when I shared that with his teacher, after all, she hasn't realized yet that the harness just clicked locked and the roller coaster car just began it's ascent .
Bless her heart ;o) It's going to be a bumpy ride.